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Should I Have My Wedding at Home?

Writer's picture: Christel StarkeChristel Starke

With the ever increasing cost of living, many couples are looking for cheaper alternatives. When it comes to choosing the perfect venue for your big day, the options are seemingly endless.. and usually quite costly! But there's one option that carries a unique charm, seems cheaper and has a deeply personal touch: having your wedding at home.


Backyard weddings have been gaining popularity for several reasons, and if you're contemplating this idea, there are several factors to consider before you make that choice


Intimacy and Sentimentality: Getting married at home provides an unparalleled sense of intimacy and sentimentality. The familiar surroundings add a personal touch that no external venue can replicate. From saying your vows in the backyard where you shared countless memories to celebrating in the living room where you first met, a home wedding is a journey down memory lane, making the entire experience more meaningful. If there are also already kids around, it creates a familiar environment to be around.. and you can also put them in their own bed!







Cost-Effective: Weddings can be expensive, and venue costs can quickly eat into your budget. Opting to have your wedding at home can be a cost-effective choice. By eliminating venue rental fees, you may have more room in your budget for other aspects of your wedding, such as catering, entertainment, or that dream honeymoon.

Flexibility and Creativity: Having your wedding at home allows for unprecedented flexibility and creativity. You have the freedom to design the space according to your vision, without adhering to the restrictions of a traditional venue. Whether it's transforming your backyard into a whimsical garden or decking out your living room with fairy lights and personal touches, the possibilities are as boundless as your imagination.

Logistical Considerations: While the idea of a home wedding is undoubtedly romantic, it's essential to consider the logistical aspects. Do you have enough space to accommodate your guest list comfortably? Will there be sufficient parking for attendees? Are there enough toilet facilities? Assessing these logistical details is crucial to ensuring a smooth and enjoyable event.

Weather Woes: Mother Nature can be unpredictable, and when you're planning a home wedding, weather considerations become paramount. Have a backup plan for rain or extreme weather conditions, whether it's a tent in the backyard or an indoor space that can quickly be transformed into a cozy celebration area.

Noise and Neighbors: Another consideration is the potential impact on neighbors. Inform them well in advance about your plans and establish open communication to address any concerns. Being considerate of noise levels and parking arrangements can help maintain positive relationships with those living nearby.

Having your wedding at home is a decision that comes with both advantages and challenges. Transforming your home into a wedding venue demands meticulous planning, including factors such as getting the gardens ready, setting up the entire event space, and managing the logistics of having a large number of people inside your home. Navigating these responsibilities while also preparing for saying your nuptials can also be quite demanding on the day.


If the intimate, cost-effective, and creatively flexible aspects appeal to you, and you're prepared to navigate the logistical considerations, a home wedding might be the perfect choice for your special day. If you're considering having a home wedding be sure to speak to your vendors to see what connections and skills they can bring to the table to help manage the day. After all, there's no place like home to start the next chapter of your love story!




 

About the Author


Celebrant Christel

Christel Starke is a certified Civil Celebrant, whose passion is to create small and intimate, whether it be at Glen Elborne Estate in Sassafras VIC or your chosen venue in the surrounding hills.



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